Member Shoutout
MEMBER SHOUTOUT
Danielle Ross
What brought you to the T12 Collective—and how has God met you here?
I found the T12 Collective while looking for community. Over the years I have struggled due to multiple miscarriages and infertility. There were no churches in my area that had any resources regarding loss or miscarriage. I felt isolated and like no one really understood how I was feeling. When I found the T12 Collective I felt like I found hope and community. God was showing me that He saw my pain and struggles.
What’s a Bible verse or truth that’s been anchoring you in this season?
Though Daniel 3:16-30 does not specifically relate to infertility and miscarriage, but it still provides me with encouragement. It reminds me that even when things and life do not go as planned that God can still provide. That even when things do not look good that He can still come through and work miracles. I don't have to give into hopelessness. God does not leave us alone in the difficult seasons of our lives.
What does “purpose beyond motherhood” mean to you right now?
I am reminded that my purpose is not tied to my ability or inability to have children. God is still calling me to do and be so much more. I work with children, and I can still mentor and be a blessing to them. I can still serve and live my life. I still have value and worth. It has been exciting for me to pray and watch God little by little reveal my purpose.
How would you encourage another woman walking through infertility, loss, or waiting?
I would remind her not to isolate herself. There are others that are struggling and hurting silently. I want women to know that they still have worth and value. Even if their spouse does not seem to be impacted by infertility and loss the same way that it can take extra work to find healing together. I want women to be reminded that they are not alone.
What’s your favorite way to find peace or joy in a hard moment?
Listening to worship music and singing overall helps me to find joy. Even when my heart and mind may not always fully accept the words I am singing, certain songs just bring me peace. I also enjoy making wax melts and candles. I am not really creative, but I am trying out different hobbies. I am trying to be more intentional about finding things that bring me joy.
