hope in every season
Refined Women’s Night
An evening for women navigating infertility, miscarriage, pregnancy loss, infant loss, or childlessness.
Friday, October 16, 2026
7:00–9:00 PM | Virtual + In Person
A room where you don’t have to explain
Infertility and loss can make even ordinary conversations feel difficult. Refined was created for women who want to spend an evening with others who understand the grief, longing, questions, and complicated hope that can come with this journey.
You’ll experience worship, a personal story, time around the table, and a Wave of Light ceremony honoring the babies, losses, and stories that matter deeply.
You are welcome to come by yourself, bring someone you trust, participate in the conversation, or simply listen. There is no pressure to share more than you want to.
RESERVE YOUR SEAT
WHAT TO EXPECTÂ
Worship
Begin the evening with worship and space to pause before God. Whether you're grieving, waiting, or simply feeling weary, this is an opportunity to bring your whole heart before Him.
Stories of HopeÂ
Hear a personal story from a woman who understands this journey. Through honest reflection and biblical truth, you'll be reminded that your story is not forgotten.
Connection Around the Table
  Sit with a small group of women and a Table Leader who understands. You can share your story, listen, or simply be present. There is no expectation to participate beyond what feels comfortable.
Wave of Light & Prayer
  During the evening, we'll honor the babies, losses, and stories represented in the room through our Wave of Light ceremony and spend time in prayer together. Whether your loss was recent or years ago, there is space to remember, grieve, and entrust what you're carrying to God.
You do not have to arrive with everything figured out
You may still be waiting. You may be grieving a loss others no longer mention. You may be learning how to live with a future that looks different from the one you expected.
Refined does not ask you to rush past any of that.
It is one evening to sit with women who understand, remember what matters, and be reminded that God has not turned away from you.
JOIN US AT REFINED
Save Your Seat
Join us for an evening of worship, stories of hope, conversation around the table, and a Wave of Light ceremony as we gather with women navigating infertility, miscarriage, pregnancy loss, infant loss, and childlessness. Whether you attend in person or virtually, we hope you'll be part of Refined this October.
Friday, October 16, 2026
7:00–9:00 PM (Doors open at 6:30 PM)
Frisco First Church
7901 Main Street
Frisco, TX 75034
In-Person Ticket: $35
REGISTER FOR REFINEDJoin Us OnlineÂ
Whether you're joining us from your living room or gathering with women from your church, Bible study, or community, we want you to be part of Refined.
This isn't just watching an event online. It's an opportunity to pause, worship, hear a story of faith and perseverance, take part in meaningful conversation, and join us for the Wave of Light from wherever you are.
Your $25 registration includes live access to the full evening, guided online discussion with one of our leaders, and a Refined gift mailed to you before the event (U.S. shipping only).
No matter where you are in your story—or where you're joining from—we hope you'll experience Refined with us.
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"Refined was a beautiful time where I felt less alone and encountered the Lord in such a special way. After walking through multiple miscarriages, being surrounded by women who understood made me feel truly seen and heard. It’s an event I don’t want to miss because of how much it means to me and to others who have walked through similar journeys." - BrittanyÂ
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“Extremely grateful for the community and purpose I’ve found here. The Refined event changed everything for me! I love the tools, and they’ve made such an impact!” - VivianÂ
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"Refined was such a blessing, being surrounded by women who truly understand the journey I've been on. I was encouraged by God's Word and reminded of His truth about me. The support and connection, along with the focus on biblical women, made a lasting impact on my faith and my spirit." - Jessica
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"Refined was such a beautiful experience for me. Men often face their own struggles with infertility and loss, and being able to attend an event alongside the person you are walking through that season with is incredibly beneficial.
The two most impactful moments of the Refined event for me were, first, the lighting of the candle to honor the children we have lost. It provided a safe space to reflect on a painful season while also being a powerful reminder that Jesus is in control and deeply values every life.
The second most impactful moment was seeing the community surrounding my wife, women who have either walked through this season or are currently in it. I often don’t have the words to fully comfort her through the loss and the lack of success we’ve experienced in pregnancy, so my desire has always been to ensure her cup is being filled. Seeing the support and community she has, not only through Refined but also through the ongoing monthly gatherings at Hope Renewed, gave me peace and reassurance, knowing she is supported and that she is going to be okay." - Chase
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About Twelve 12 Ministries
Twelve 12 Ministries provides Christ-centered care, resources, and community for women and families navigating infertility, miscarriage, pregnancy loss, infant loss, and childlessness.
Through support groups, Butterfly Boxes, Bible studies, events, and practical resources, we help women find support from people who understand and stay connected to Christ in seasons they never expected to face.
LEARN MORE ABOUT TWELVE 12